Re-shaping values
One of the biggest reality checks entering college was the fact that many friendships would begin to outgrow. As people met new students in the environment and learned about different topics in a broader view, our demeanor towards one another slowly changed.
In many cases, I became more observant and reserved with how much I shared with others. I tend to be more intentional about seeking in-depth connections with other individuals and so far it has weeded out those who I’ve outgrown. The tough conversations about our circle changing can seem daunting but being able to engage in them promotes stability for our surroundings.
As these values become more solidified and voiced to our communities, it is important that we stand by the new system that we’ve created for ourselves and be flexible with knowing that the people we’ve known before will take time to adjust to such values. If not, usually it is time for those relationships to be re-evaluated.